Japanese
Irusu
/EE-roo-soo/
Irusu describes the delicate art of intentionally feigning ignorance, often by pretending not to see or hear someone, to avoid an unwanted interaction or obligation. It's a subtle, non-confrontational maneuver born from a desire to maintain social harmony or personal space without causing direct offense. This passive disengagement allows one to sidestep an awkward encounter or a request they wish to decline, leaving the onus on the other party to either persist or gracefully withdraw without an explicit rejection.
Lit. to overlook, to ignore
Used when someone is intentionally ignoring another person, often by pretending not to notice them to avoid interaction or confrontation.